Sunday, December 21, 2008
The things I have done.
Bold the items you have done:
1. Started your own blog.
2. Slept under the stars
3. Played in a band
4. Visited Hawaii
5. Watched a meteor shower
6. Given more than you can afford to charity
7. Been to Disneyland
8. Climbed a mountain
9. Held a Praying Mantis
10. Sang a solo
11. Bungee jumped
12. Visited Paris
13. Watched a lightning storm at sea
14. Taught yourself an art from scratch
15. Adopted a child
16. Had food poisoning
17. Been to the Statue of Liberty
18. Grown your own vegetables
19. Seen the Mona Lisa at the Louvre
20. Slept on a train
21. Had a pillow fight
22. Hitch hiked
23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill
24. Built a snow fort
25. Held a lamb.
26. Gone skinny dipping
27. Run a Marathon
28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice
29. Seen a total eclipse
30. Watched a sunrise or sunset
31. Hit a home run
32. Been on a cruise
33. Seen Niagara Falls in person
34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors
35. Seen an Amish community
36. Taught yourself a new language
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied
38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person
39. Gone rock climbing
40. Seen Michelangelo’s David
41. Sung karaoke
42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant
44. Visited Africa
45. Walked on a beach by moonlight
46. Been transported in an ambulance
47. Had your portrait painted
48. Gone deep sea fishing
49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person
50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris
51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling
52. Kissed in the rain
53. Played in the mud- and mom has the pictures to prove it. :)
54. Gone to a drive-in theater
55. Been in a movie
56. Visited the Great Wall of China
57. Started a business
58. Taken a martial arts class
59. Visited Russia
60. Served at a soup kitchen
61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies
62. Gone whale watching
63. Got flowers for no reason
64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma
65. Gone sky diving
66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp
67. Bounced a check
68. Flown in a helicopter
69. Saved a favorite childhood toy
70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial
71. Eaten Caviar
72. Tied a quilt
73. Stood in Times Square
74. Toured the Everglades
75. Been fired from a job
76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London
77. Broken a Bone
78. Been on a speeding motorcycle
79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person
80. Published a book
81. Visited the Vatican
82. Bought a brand new car
83. Walked in Jerusalem
84. Had your picture in the newspaper
85. Read the entire Bible
86. Visited the White House
87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating
88. Had chickenpox
89. Saved someone’s life
90. Sat on a jury
91. Met someone famous
92. Joined a book club
93. Lost a loved one
94. Had a baby
95. Seen the Alamo in person
96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake
97. Been involved in a law suit
98. Owned a cell phone
99. Been stung by a bee
100. Visited Italy
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Faith and Hope
I've had something on my mind for a while now, and I have resisted posting because I didn't want to offend people close to me. I can't get it off my mind, so I have decided to go ahead and get my thoughts down.
Lately, I have felt like people have been judgemental of my dedication to my religion. I have some fantastic friends who have different views than I do. Some are wonderful, and tolerant, and some are very kind, but treat me like because I center my life around my religion, I am not capable of thinking for myself. It seems to me like the "popular" opinion has become to doubt everything that comes along. I think most people do believe in God. I think many people deny that there is a God simply because it seems that that is what Hollywood is doing, and it seems to be hip or cool. I am really annoyed by this.
I know that I have a Heavenly Father, and I know that he loves me. I also know that he loves every one of his children, and he would love to have every one of them enjoy the blessings that come from living a righteous life. I also know that he cannot bless them if they will not follow the commandments. It amazes me how many people try to find happiness everywhere except in living the way they should. I had my independent years where I had to find out everything for myself. I rebelled against the way my parents raised me thinking it was "old fashioned." I went through a lot of misery. I knew that all I had to do was live the way I knew I should, but I was afraid of what my friends at the time would think. I spent some time being unhappy. I thought I was mature because I was making up my own mind, but I realized that a lot of times, maturity comes when you humble yourself to realize you can learn from other people. Especially wise parents who tried their best to raise you the right way.
I think for most of my life, my religion has been a guiding factor in my life. It is not just a place I go to meet people, it directs just about everything I do in my life. Is this because I am not smart enough to make up my own mind? Is it because I am simply a follower, and I think that "acting" like I am being righteous will make me look better to other people? Nope! It is because I have faith, and because I have hope. I have never regretted following the counsel of the prophet. I have definitely regretted NOT following his counsel. I had a friend once who said, "If I die, and find out everything I believe in is not true, I would not regret they way I have lived for a second." I do believe in my religion, but I also believe the life that I live because of my beliefs is a much happier life.
I believe that happiness does come when we follow the counsel of the prophets. If the prophet stood up and said that every Tuesday we should wear a green shirt, I would be happy to follow the counsel. I wouldn't understand it, but I believe in President Monson as a prophet, and for me that is enough. I don't need to fight against his counsel every time. I do work to gain a testimony of the things he asks us to do, but I don't need to decide each time if I will or won't follow his counsel.
My life is happier because I am a religious person.
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Christmas Gift Exchange
When I was growing up, we used to draw names for Christmas gifts. We would each have a sibling or parents name, and we would pick a night and we would all go down to a store. I think it was called Grand Central, and later the name was changed to Fred Meyer. It was similar to today's Wal-mart. We would divide up into two groups, with Mom and Dad each being in charge of one of the groups, and we would go through the store finding gifts for each other. I remember many times when we would see the other group, and we would rush to run away from them so they wouldn't see the gifts we were buying. Everything was covered with coats in the cart anyway, but we would still run. Many times there were complications and we couldn't split up the groups so we divided all the givers and receivers, and so Dad would devise a game plan so we could pass some kids off from one parent to another so we could all get our gifts in one night. We would all go home, and mom and dad would help us wrap our presents and put them under the tree. My parents never put out the gifts that they had bought for us until Christmas Eve. In our house, Santa was a very minor part of Christmas. Our stockings were filled by "Santa," but we always knew the rest of the gifts were from our parents, they would just wait until Christmas Eve to put them out. Now that I have my own kids, I see how smart they were. The presents that we bought for each other were usually the only presents that made it under the tree until Christmas. I can't remember if the tradition of drawing names stopped for a while, but I know that we drew names after I got married.
After I got married we began drawing names for Christmas presents, and I think we tried many different things until we finally decided that each sibling/couple would buy for another sibling/couple, and each child would buy for another child. We exchange our family gifts at our family Christmas party. We did this for several years but soon some of our families became large, and some only had a couple of kids. A few years ago, as we were getting ready to draw names, some of the siblings asked to not be included because it was a little hard on the budget, and many others agreed that finding the money for the gift exchange added to the stress of the holidays. We all hated to have this fun tradition be a strain to anyone and so we started the tradition that the gifts all had to be homemade, and there had to be a $5 limit on kid gifts, and a $10 limit on couple/sibling gifts. I have to tell you that at the beginning, I was terrified. I am not a crafty person, and I am not that creative. When I have an idea, it is usually a pretty good one, but coming up with those good ideas is very hard for me. I was worried that the kids would be getting a 2 year olds crayon drawing, and they would think Christmas was lame. I do have to say though, that I really love this tradition now.
This year we drew my sister, Mimi's, name. Mimi loved watching our home movies when we were growing up, and I had been wanting to burn our home movies onto DVD for her for a very long time. We bought the software a while ago, and I finally sat down and figured out how to work it. It wasn't very smooth, and we had a lot of trial and error before we got something I was happy with, but I was really happy when we were done. It was so overwhelming, but so great to spend that much time with our movies. I found many that I had never seen before. All of my grandparents have died, and so it was great to go back and watch all the movies of them. My favorite movie that I downloaded was a pretty long clip of all of us girls (there are 6 of us) and my brother playing baseball in the back yard with my dad. While we were playing, my Grandparents came out and started playing with us. I just sat there and cried as I watched it. It was wonderful to completely immerse myself in the movies. I had to watch each clip several times to get it ready to put on the DVD. It felt like I was watching a familiar movie. One where you know the ending, and you know the character development of each person. I watched the movies from the last year before my Grandma died, and I felt the panic as I watched it, and I saw us all having fun, but not savoring every last moment with her. I learned to love myself like I love one of my kids. I wanted to be able to talk to that little girl, and reassure her, and tell her she was a pretty neat kid. I loved putting the DVDs together for my sister, knowing she would love watching them, as much as I loved putting them together. I really loved putting something of myself into them. I know that I could have gone to the store, and picked out a present that my sister probably would have loved, but it felt great to give her something that came from me.
Mimi also had drawn my name. Mimi is an incredible gardener. She loves to make things grow, and her cute little yard is amazing. A few months ago, I read on her blog about her indoor herb garden she was growing, and I thought about how I needed to have her help me. I have wanted an herb garden for forever, and I even have a little spot in my backyard where I plan to put one when we get our yard in next year. Mimi had these cute pots she had planted her herbs in. Well that was my present. She was so excited when she talked about her herbs in her blog. I asked her if she had any left, and she told me that she had some seeds, and so she could start a new herb garden. She transplanted some of the herbs, but she ran out of pots. She even gave me all the cute little pots!! I love my herb garden. I am sure that I would have loved an herb garden that I started on my own, if the herbs lived, but I love this one so much more because it has part of Mimi in it.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Husband Tag
Saturday, December 6, 2008
Birthday Outfit
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
My Creative Husband
My husband comes from a very artistic family. His whole house was decorated with his mom's and dad's paintings. When they found a picture that one of the kids painted that they liked, they put a frame on it, and put it on the walls. Hubby tells stories of his mom creating the ice planet, Hoth (only the Star Wars geeks will know what I am talking about) from a very large piece of styrofoam. It was a main feature in their house until it eventually disintigrated. They played on it with their Star Wars toys until there was nothing but a huge mess left. My husband's twin brother created his own cake topper for his wedding. He has twin brothers whose entire apartment is filled with toys and models. They are all very creative.
One outlet for my husbands creativity is Halloween pumpkins. There have been many years when the stress of the holidays takes over, and I unwisely suggest we skip the pumpkins. Yea, Right! I have learned to love pumpkin carving, and I try to plan a little more wisely so he can have his creativity, and I can have less stress.
My kids have complete faith in my husbands pumpkin carving abilities. Last year, they saw a Charizard pumpkin that they just had to have. (For those of you who don't know, Charizard is a pokemon.) Hubby was up very late the night before Halloween to make their dreams come true.
Big huge thanks to my sister-in-law and my nieces and nephews for growing our pumpkins. We had many shapely gourds to carve this year. :)
Math Curriculum
We started our Math curriculum by buying the big workbooks from Wal-mart, and going through them. I found out that my kids hate sitting and doing workbooks, and that having a curriculum that has a focus on workbooks was not the answer for us. I tried getting a Scope and Sequence from a math curriculum and just following that, and Math was still very boring. I tried looking at the Disk the district gives you showing you all the objectives for the year and teaching that way, and the objectives were so obscure it turned out to be really pointless. Finally I stumbled on a curriculum on a message board. It is online, and it is free. The big pull for me was that I could try it out, and see if it worked for our family before committing tons of money. The mentality behind the curriculum took a while to get used to, but I really love it now.
The curriculum is called the Comprehensive School Mathematics Program. It is also called Cemrel Math. I grew up believeing the motto "You get what you pay for," but in the case of this curriculum, it just isn't true. This is truly an amazing curriculum. My favorite things about it, is that it is fun, and it is hard!! My kids math skills have improved a ton, and they don't even realize it. They are having fun reading and making up stories, and solving spy puzzles, and at the same time they are learning about geometry, probability, all the math basics, string theory, and probably a ton of other things that all just seem like playing to them. My first grader has been exposed to multiplication, and negative numbers. My second grader is beginning to learn more about decimals, and my fifth grader is learning about binary, base 3, base 4 etc systems. I had a telemarketer call me trying to sell me her several hundred dollar math curriculum, and as she read through her list of all the different things her "state of the art" curriculum was covering (in her pompous voice, confident that she would blow me away with all they were offering) I told her I already had a curriculm that covered everything she was selling, and it was free!!
This is Allen working with the Minicomputer, it is a type of abacus that does a great job of visually introducing many concepts. The name minicomputer also sounds a lot cooler than "abacus."
My kids were not math whizzes when I pulled them out of school. My fourth grader did not even know his multiplication tables. His math class was working on long division, and he was still counting everything out on his fingers. He was so lost. Here a year and a half later, he smokes me on many problems. My third grader is a very "out of the box" thinker, and this curriculum gives him a chance to be creative in math. I have also learned that he is brilliant when it comes to math, but he needs to be able to look at things in a different way. My little first grader is really good at math, and she looks forward to learning about all the "fun things" her older brothers are learning. She was so excited to learn about "Eli the Elephant" (the curriculms story for negative numbers) because she had been hearing her brothers talk about it.
My favorite things about this curriculum is that fact that it is free, that it is fun, and there isn't a ton of writing involved. Most of our lessons are done at the kitchen table with our math manipulatives, and our whiteboard. Most of the lesson involves us interacting with each other for the entire lesson. Many of the lessons have worksheets with them, but they are fun. Often the kids are solving a puzzle, or being detectives as they finish their worksheets. Most of the manipulatives are printable things from the website, and many concepts are presented as a game. (My favorite is the String game. They also have the number line game, and minicomputer golf)
This is one of the string pictures we made with Michael's lesson. The curriculum uses string pictures quite often. I think they are great teaching tools.
There are a few challenges that come with this curriculum. You need to print out quite a bit of stuff. I print out all the teachers manuals, and workbooks. (You really need a color printer for many of the materials) The lessons are also time consuming for the teacher (me). My first graders lessons take between 15 minutes and a half an hour to teach, My third grader is about a half an hour to 45 min, and sometimes my 5th graders lessons will take about an hour to teach. This definitely isn't a curriculum where you give your child the book, and they do all the work on their own. The kids do have a workbook day each week, where the lesson with the teacher is about 5 minutes and the rest of the time is spent doing a workbook. The workbooks are the main assessment tool. There are no tests. There are some minor pieces of the curriculum missing (posters and things) but I haven't had a tough time creating them on the computer. The curriculum was created for a classroom setting, but it hasn't been difficult to adapt it for homeschooling. The way that they approach math is also very different. Starting the curriculum in any grade below the 5th grade seemed to work okay, but when I tried to start my son at the 5th grade level, the language and skills were too advanced, so we had to start at the 4th grade level. The curriculum also only goes through the 6th grade. I have been looking at different curriculum options for my son, and I think we will be able to jump to a different program.
In spite of the challenges, I love this curriculum. If I had to pay for it, I would, but I don't have to. I love teaching math. I get to teach it everyday. I am pretty lucky. :)
I started this blog over a month ago, and kept waiting to get it perfected so I could post it. I think it it time to give up on perfection, and let go of the guilt, and just post it!
Links
Here are a couple of links that have helped us with our Math curriculum- And best of all, most of them are free.
CSMP Site- This is the site for the curriculum
Learningthings.com- One of my favorite Math Manipulatives sites. They seem to have things at a better price than anywhere else. Many of the "Education" stores in the area get their items from Learning Things, and the jack up the prices.
internet4classrooms.com- This website is one of my favorite. It is so packed with stuff. It has a breakdown of each of the grade levels, each objective the students should learn, and then a plethora of websites to teach the objective. I love the games they have to practice math skills.
Timez Attack- (Free Download) One of my favorite Multiplication Games. I love the graphics, and the little alien guy is so cute. It is not a super difficult game, but my video gamers will play it for hours because it is so well made. It teaches multiplication facts 2-12. The full version of the game is $40, and I have heard it is awesome, but we have only played the free download, and we are very happy with it.