Today, I recieved some news that someone very dear to me had a miscarriage. My heart breaks for her, and I spent some time crying. Going through something like that is so hard, and it is also so hard to watch someone you love and care about go through it. Grief is so personal. Whenever I have gone through a loss, there are very few things that people can do. When I lost my last baby, there were people from the ward who brought us dinner. There were many people who stopped me in the hall, and told me they were sorry. It meant a lot to me that people cared about me, and were thinking about me, but there was really nothing that anyone could do to help me through it. It helped to talk things out, but I had to resolve things in my heart by myself. It was a very personal time.
To my sweet friend: I would be happy to help in any way I can, but I know that this is something that will be a very personal battle. You will be in my thoughts and prayers, and I love you so much!!
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